Hi Bishbash. Welcome back to So Cal. Wish it was under better circumstances. Hope you are nearer to the coast than I am. Only about 10 miles inland and HOT AS HELL. Mt Helix area of San Diego. Best wishes for a successful resolution and speedy recovery on your Dad's issues. Your are in my thoughts and prayers.
On a more serious note, of course I know you're male and I would have no reason to know - much less care - about your preferences. But if this offended you, please accept my apology. I was just playin!