Hey SF87, my sister is a girl that likes to go out, drink, and have fun. Yes, there are things that can happen, but IMO girls deciding to go out or not based on getting raped should be the same as a girl deciding to go out or not based on falling down a flight of stairs...if that makes sense. BTW, my sister has never been in a rape situation, but my girlfriends sister was raped in a bathroom at a party. Is it fair to tell someone its kinda your fault for going to a party and drinking. I dont think so.