Well I'm sitting here completely mind ****ed. I have no idea what to think right now and am both confused and oddly depressed.
The girl I referenced earlier in this thread. We started talking online 3 weeks ago and hit if off immediately. We both couldn't get over how well we got along and how many truly cute and random things we had in common. We started texting every day, sometimes for a few hours, and most of the conversations were amazing. It was clear that we were both into it. Within 2-3 days I scheduled a date for the 13th.
That morning she texts me and asks if we can reschedule for the weekend because she's really sick. I knew her roommate was just getting over a cold, so I agreed and we kept chatting. We texted that night so I don't think she blew me off to do something else. We texted all week but she still wasn't over the cold on Friday (stayed home from work with a fever), so we unofficially postponed again.
Fast forward to this past week. Everything is normal and we're having a fantastic conversation on Tuesday night. I tell her I want to see her this week and ask when she's free. After a long delay between texts, she suggests Friday. We resume our chat and she goes to bed shortly after. Wednesday night I text her and tell her I have a cool idea for an interactive date (we'd previously agreed to coffee but hadn't addressed what the plan was for this date). This was during a conversation around 8PM and I never heard from her again. Thursday morning she texts me when she's up and asks for details. I give them to her and we don't text much during the day. She finally confirms she'd prefer coffee since her week was long and tiring. Thursday night we text a bit and I make a firm suggestion of a time and place and never hear from her again.
Yesterday morning she texted me when she woke up and seemed to confirm the plans. Again we didn't text much during the day, but she did tell me that a coworker called in sick so she'd have to work until 5:30 instead of 1 as planned. Our plans were for around 7:30. Around 5:30 I text her to see how her day went and she tells me she isn't finished yet, and I hear back around 6:45 that she's on her way home. Fast forward and not too many texts until around 8:30 when she texts to say she is "so sorry about tonight" but that she got home around 8, ate and showered but still isn't near ready. I text back asking her if she'd still like to meet or if we should do something Saturday (today) instead. I never heard back.
It's 11 AM and she still hasn't texted me, while she's usually texted me by this time in the past.
I'm so completely confused. I have no idea what happened. Everything went so well with this girl. We clicked so well over texts and it's a complete mind **** that she seems to have blown me off completely without even meeting. And even in our texts just 3-4 days ago she made comments about the long-term (ie. converting each other on shows, trying pizza places together, etc.). I don't understand why she'd make those comments if she's no longer interested. I can't figure out if she's just nervous to meet or if she genuinely doesn't want to anymore, and I don't want to be one of those needy guys who spams her with texts asking.
I guess I've learned a valuable lesson - **** texting. I've never even met this girl yet I formed a substantial enough bond over text that I'm actually hurting right now. It's almost like a mini relationship ending, because of the daily contact and sharing of a lot of information via text.
I'm pretty embarrassed and frustrated so wanted to vent somewhere. I have no idea what to do now. I know the logical thing is to delete her and cut her out regardless of what her next move is, but I really liked this girl and the mind **** is truly real. Anyway, I dunno...
She may be just a very bashful person and nothing more. Some people just freak when they realize that they'll actually have to meet someone. Text her that you've never dated off Craig's list. 
