I think the reason Meyers comes up when talking about Brady and his attitude is a lot due to the Texans game last season. Brady was on the sidelines chewing Meyers out after one series and it got a lot of attention in the media. I think he also went after Harry in that game as well. Bear in mind the skipping of OTAs was particularly ugly knowing full well there were rookie receivers like this who needed time.
But this isn't new. Brady was like that with KT and Dobson in their first season and was yelling on the sidelines at them in one game and was called out on this by Michael Irvin and Brady then apologised.
Look, this is part of what makes Brady the GOAT, the relentless drive for perfection. Nothing wrong with that. But what jolted last year was Tom deliberately slipping OTAs and not putting the time in to help develop those rookie receivers, chewing them out in front of the cameras and then you hear the Stern interview and it's not a great look.