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Once again, I'm reminded to try your best to live life before you can't.

The weekend weather person here at work was working towards retirement. Wasn't 100% ready to retire so last year he went from 5 days a week to 4. He was going to retire this last December but we couldn't find a replacement so he went to just weekends part time. He talked about all the trip he was going to do when he retired. He was usually here around the same time I got in so when he wasn't in by 4:30 today and wasn't responding to any forms of contact. General Manager and police made entry into his apartment and found him already passed away. He was months away from retiring.
Sorry to hear this sometimes choices aren’t in the future…. Live your life to the fullest while you can… unfortunately tomorrow may not come. He seems to have made peace … it’s hard … you are all in my thoughts.

~Dee~
 
Once again, I'm reminded to try your best to live life before you can't.

The weekend weather person here at work was working towards retirement. Wasn't 100% ready to retire so last year he went from 5 days a week to 4. He was going to retire this last December but we couldn't find a replacement so he went to just weekends part time. He talked about all the trip he was going to do when he retired. He was usually here around the same time I got in so when he wasn't in by 4:30 today and wasn't responding to any forms of contact. General Manager and police made entry into his apartment and found him already passed away. He was months away from retiring.

My own health misadventures over the last couple of years have brought this type of situation into sharp focus. I am 57 as a couple of weeks ago. I can afford it so after the Stem Cell transplant I will officially retire. No point doing it now as 30+ years of paying for STD/LTD insurance is finally paying out.

My concern is for my best friend. He is soon to be 54 (March) and in a millionaire several times over. Money isn't the issue. Let me clarify: He has more than enough; he just refuses to believe it. He is now officially tired of "my shit" bugging him to hang it up. He is like a brother to me. I will not stop. In fact, I am going to read CFTTE's post above to him.

Funny how near death experiences will change your thinking.

I start the Transplant process March 7 at 9:30 am. There are lots of things that need to be done ahead of time such as WBC enhancement and stem cell harvesting. Things are now scheduled in PEN. If the process doesn't kill me, I should be home 4-6 weeks after I start. I am so happy I have made it this far I could burst. God is watching out for me. Thoughts and Prayers? Yes please. Even a prayer like this works: "just so the dumb mf'er in Michigan will stop posting about it, please help him out" is positive to me and I will take it! :thumb:
 
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My own health misadventures over the last couple of years have brought this type of situation into sharp focus for me. I am 57 as a couple of weeks ago. I can afford it and after the Stem Cell transplant I will officially retire. No point now as 30+ years of paying for STD/LTD insurance is finally paying out.

My concern is for my best friend. He is soon to be 54 (March) and in a millionaire several times over. Money isn't the issue. He is no officially tired of "my shit" bugging him to hang it up. He is like a brother to me. I will not stop. In fact, I am going t o read CFTTE's post above to him.

Funny how near death experiences will change your thinking.

I start the Transplant process March 7 at 9:30 am. There are lots of things that need to be done ahead of time such and WBC enhancement and stem cell harvesting. Things are scheduled in pen. If the process doesn't kill me, I should be home 4-6 weeks after I start. I am so happy I have made it this far I could burst. God is watching out for me. Thoughts and Prayers? Yes please. Even a prayer that this works "so the dumb mf'er in Michigan will stop posting about it is positive to me and I will take it! :thumb:
Just like the Patriots, you were down 28-3. And now, just like the Patriots, you are about to start that final drive to victory. I believed then, and I believe now, that they and you will be victorious.
So, that's my thought, and I'm sticking with it.
 
Just like the Patriots, you were down 28-3. And now, just like the Patriots, you are about to start that final drive to victory. I believed then, and I believe now, that they and you will be victorious.
So, that's my thought, and I'm sticking with it.

I love it. Thanks PP!!!!!
 
My own health misadventures over the last couple of years have brought this type of situation into sharp focus. I am 57 as a couple of weeks ago. I can afford it so after the Stem Cell transplant I will officially retire. No point doing it now as 30+ years of paying for STD/LTD insurance is finally paying out.

My concern is for my best friend. He is soon to be 54 (March) and in a millionaire several times over. Money isn't the issue. Let me clarify: He has more than enough; he just refuses to believe it. He is now officially tired of "my shit" bugging him to hang it up. He is like a brother to me. I will not stop. In fact, I am going to read CFTTE's post above to him.

Funny how near death experiences will change your thinking.

I start the Transplant process March 7 at 9:30 am. There are lots of things that need to be done ahead of time such as WBC enhancement and stem cell harvesting. Things are now scheduled in PEN. If the process doesn't kill me, I should be home 4-6 weeks after I start. I am so happy I have made it this far I could burst. God is watching out for me. Thoughts and Prayers? Yes please. Even a prayer that like this works: "just so the dumb mf'er in Michigan will stop posting about it is, please help him out" is positive to me and I will take it! :thumb:
Good luck and I have all the faith in the world that you will be holding the Lombardi trophy my friend …. Thoughts, prayers and anything else you and yours may need.

~Dee~
 
My own health misadventures over the last couple of years have brought this type of situation into sharp focus. I am 57 as a couple of weeks ago. I can afford it so after the Stem Cell transplant I will officially retire. No point doing it now as 30+ years of paying for STD/LTD insurance is finally paying out.

My concern is for my best friend. He is soon to be 54 (March) and in a millionaire several times over. Money isn't the issue. Let me clarify: He has more than enough; he just refuses to believe it. He is now officially tired of "my shit" bugging him to hang it up. He is like a brother to me. I will not stop. In fact, I am going to read CFTTE's post above to him.

Funny how near death experiences will change your thinking.

I start the Transplant process March 7 at 9:30 am. There are lots of things that need to be done ahead of time such as WBC enhancement and stem cell harvesting. Things are now scheduled in PEN. If the process doesn't kill me, I should be home 4-6 weeks after I start. I am so happy I have made it this far I could burst. God is watching out for me. Thoughts and Prayers? Yes please. Even a prayer like this works: "just so the dumb mf'er in Michigan will stop posting about it is, please help him out" is positive to me and I will take it! :thumb:
I never knew insurance covered STD’s…🤔
 
Good luck and I have all the faith in the world that you will be holding the Lombardi trophy my friend …. Thoughts, prayers and anything else you and yours may need.

~Dee~

Thanks Dee. I appreciate it. I appreciate everything. I think I always have but these days I do so much more. Analogous to the old saying that "youth is wasted on the young".
 
I am appreciative of the updates @Aloyouis. You been on my prayer list for a while now and I add everyone who asks for it or who posts here.

I will tell you what I have already told you, you got this. You are to much of a badass MFer to let it win.

#YouGotThis
 
I am appreciative of the updates @Aloyouis. You been on my prayer list for a while now and I add everyone who asks for it or who posts here.

I will tell you what I have already told you, you got this. You are to much of a badass MFer to let it win.

#YouGotThis
Thank you, Muse. 😀
 
Thanks Dee. I appreciate it. I appreciate everything. I think I always have but these days I do so much more. Analogous to the old saying that "youth is wasted on the young".
That’s very true but I’m an old bitch ….I do appreciate everything as well lol. I’m living vicariously through my grandkidos … I’m behind you and your struggles … I still have faith you will conquer this….

~Dee~
 
Stem cells harvested last Tuesday. 3.7 million is the number I believe. Well, it was 3.7 something. They said they needed to get 2.0 of something. So, whether it was millions or zillions, they got enough in one 6 hour session.
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The chemo has worn off mostly and the stem cell inducing drugs have worn off. Today is the best I have felt in 6 months - at least.

I get a week off and go in to Karmanos next Wednesday to start 6 days of chemo that they tell me is 5 times stronger than what I just finished and it will wipe out my immune system. I will get my stem cells back (cleaned, pressed and folded 🤪) on the 21st EDIT: the 27th. They tell me this will be my new birthday or if I want, a second birthday. I am going with the latter.

Then we wait to see if the little buggers take root. They should. After that, it is a waiting game: how long for me to recover from the chemo and how long it takes for the cells to get to a high enough level that I can go home. Should be about a month. I am told that if all goes well, I will be topping golfs balls off of the tee by August.

Docs have penned the odds at 65% chance of cure. 35% chance of relapse. I am thinking positive thoughts and plan to watch Super Bowl 51 the day I go into Karmanos. 😬

Did you know that Karen Guregian had stem cell transplant for Hodgkins Lymphoma back in 1989? Worked for her. God bless her.
 
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Thanks. Funny that sometimes I feel like I can't keep up and other times it feels like the clock isn't ticking. This week off is already flying by...
Sounds like one last but significant hurdle that you need to clear. The finish line is in sight for sure. Wishing you all the best and look forward to you celebrating the end of it all.
Not sure I mentioned this before, I might have, but I have a friend who also recovered from this, had the stem transplant and all, probably 15 years ago. He also decided to retire at that time, and has done well ever since.
Keep the faith......
 
Stem cells harvested last Tuesday. 3.7 million is the number I believe. Well, it was 3.7 something. They said they needed to get 2.0 of something. So, whether it was millions or zillions, they got enough in one 6 hour session.
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The chemo has worn off mostly and the stem cell inducing drugs have worn off. Today is the best I have felt in 6 months - at least.

I get a week off and go in to Karmanos next Wednesday to start 6 days of chemo that they tell me is 5 times stronger than what I just finished and it will wipe out my immune system. I will get my stem cells back (cleaned, pressed and folded 🤪) on the 21st. They tell me this will be my new birthday or if I want, a second birthday. I am going with the latter.

Then we wait to see if the little buggers take root. They should. After that, it is a waiting game: how long for me to recover from the chemo and how long it takes for the cells to get to a high enough level that I can go home. Should be about a month. I am told that if all goes well, I will be topping golfs balls off of the tee by August.

Docs have penned the odds at 65% chance of cure. 35% chance of relapse. I am thinking positive thoughts and plan to watch Super Bowl 51 the day I go into Karmanos. 😬

Did you know that Karen Guregian had stem cell transplant for Hodgkins Lymphoma back in 1989? Worked for her. God bless her.
You’re an inspiration buddy. I wish you success and God bless.
 
Thanks. Funny that sometimes I feel like I can't keep up and other times it feels like the clock isn't ticking. This week off is already flying by...
So once you get this thing licked, and you will lick this thing, you will have an advantage on the golf course.
While everyone else will be dragged down by playing in the heat and humidity, you will fresh.







OK, it doesn't work that way. But if you think you have an advantage, you'll feel more confident. :D
 
Stem cells harvested last Tuesday. 3.7 million is the number I believe. Well, it was 3.7 something. They said they needed to get 2.0 of something. So, whether it was millions or zillions, they got enough in one 6 hour session.
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The chemo has worn off mostly and the stem cell inducing drugs have worn off. Today is the best I have felt in 6 months - at least.

I get a week off and go in to Karmanos next Wednesday to start 6 days of chemo that they tell me is 5 times stronger than what I just finished and it will wipe out my immune system. I will get my stem cells back (cleaned, pressed and folded 🤪) on the 21st. They tell me this will be my new birthday or if I want, a second birthday. I am going with the latter.

Then we wait to see if the little buggers take root. They should. After that, it is a waiting game: how long for me to recover from the chemo and how long it takes for the cells to get to a high enough level that I can go home. Should be about a month. I am told that if all goes well, I will be topping golfs balls off of the tee by August.

Docs have penned the odds at 65% chance of cure. 35% chance of relapse. I am thinking positive thoughts and plan to watch Super Bowl 51 the day I go into Karmanos. 😬

Did you know that Karen Guregian had stem cell transplant for Hodgkins Lymphoma back in 1989? Worked for her. God bless her.

Thank you for sharing this journey with us. You probably think by doing so it's helping you but I assure you, I've been able to offer words of encouragement to folks in my personal life as a result of the details you've shared along the way.

That being said, don't bother with Super Bowl 51. The Pats played so bad I turned that shit off at halftime. :coffee:
 
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