Hopefully, things will work out for you. It is understandable that she is upset. Maybe she can fly out and stay with you for a week or whatever. Is that possible? Are you driving all the way to Texas or are you flying out there? Hopefully, you will get out there and realize that it isn't as bad as you thought it would be. You just might have to learn how to tie a knot in a lasso. Lol.... sorry told you that I'd stop trying to be funny.