Anyone have any must eats at AK & Hollywood studios . I paid for the dulexe so I can eat at a few of the signature dining places .
First of all, the best way to plan a trip down there is to have reservations for dinner every night and that depends on what your package allows for advance reservations.
I'll check with my wife and get back to you, but see if you can determine that from your info or travel agent and get those reservations ASAP. People think they can just walk up to any restaurant there and that is not the case.
At Hollywood Studios I'd go for the Brown Derby if you are a steak guy and Mama Melrose for italian. Both are pretty good, but ask for the Fantasmic package which gets you guaranteed seats to the Fantasmic show which usually takes place close to the park's closing time. That saves you having to wait in a long line and it's worth seeing. I'd say those places are your best bets and many people agree it's worth doing.
Animal Kingdom is mostly counter service, but the Tusker House is a table service place that has a good buffet so you can choose what you want and plenty of it. I thought the food was really good for a buffet.
Also, since you are planning on doing the food and wine at Epcot, I'd recommend getting fast passes as soon as you get in the park because they go really quickly and if you get there at, say, 10AM you might find that the ride times at Test Track or Soaring are already 1PM or so and that makes it complicated to plan your day.
I can't speak to your brother's condition, but Soaring is really a fun and beautiful ride that shouldn't cause him any problems and would let him try a gentler ride. If he doesn't want to do it then you can use his pass to do it twice or do the same thing for Test Track or Mission to Mars which I would recommend he definitely skips. Everybody goes for Soaring and Test Track first, so plan accordingly.
The point is, it's better to do these rides as early in the day as possible so that you can move on to World Showcase and the food and booze in the afternoon without having to skip back and forth. You want to try to minimize the walking, because Epcot can be tiring for folks who don't do a lot of walking.
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Here's another tip: Check out the featured artist and times of the free, live show at the American Adventure and plan on taking a break then because you can get a few cold beers to drink during the show. I've seen Sugar Ray, the Go-gos and Los Lobos there and it's a great place to hang out and rest the legs. If it's a show you really want to see then get there early for prime seats up front.
On a related topic, if he can't handle all the walking then maybe you could get a motorized scooter for him. That way he wouldn't be as likely to get tired and you won't have to wait in lines. They have a separate entrance for scooters at every attraction and a lot of folks take advantage of that. That might be the way to go.
I know the parks pretty well and my wife is really good at it, so feel free to ask questions and if I don't know the answer I'll find out for you.
BTW, I think it is great what you are doing for your brother.