Little Leaguer benched because of no-show mom

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Little Leaguer Benched For Mom's No-Show

Woman Was Supposed To Work Concession Stand

BOSTON -- A Freetown baseball player was benched for two games because his mom did not help out at the concession stand.

Jodie Hooper agreed to help when she signed a registration form, but she said that she had a very good excuse.

"It's my fault. I get it. I really, really do, but the rule has to change," Hooper said.

"It's a tough rule to have to enforce because everybody has things to do," League President Dave Brouillette said.

Hooper's son was benched for a second game Thursday, because she did not show up to work the stand.

"Being benched and being suspended means the child did something wrong. The child didn't do anything wrong. That is where I am having the issue with it," Hooper said.

"We are not here to have kids sit benches. We want kids to be playing, but we need people to help us out," Brouillette said.

About 370 kids play at the field. The fields are run almost exclusively by volunteers. Each parent is expected to help out at least one night.

"Is it fair if you know about it in advance and you are told? It’s one of the rules, otherwise we wouldn’t have concession stands," parent Rebecca Diaz said.

"It is 110 percent my fault, and it shouldn't fall on the shoulders of the commissioner or anyone else like that, but it needs to get out there that the rule needs to be changed," Hooper said.

"I am not here to bash Mrs. Hooper. She is a mother who is upset about her 7-year-old not being able to play baseball. I 100 percent agree with her that she is doing what she feels is right. Unfortunately as the president of the league, I have to enforce the rules," Brouillette said.

Hooper said that she had things to do at work and that is why she could not work the stand. She said that she tried to tell one of the assistant managers that she would not be there.
 
Lame rule IMO.

Really sucks ass for the kids if they have deadbeat parents.

Its not their fault.
 
I agree with her in that the rule needs to be changed.

Why punish the kids for their parents actions (or lack thereof).

Make the parents pay a fine or something.
 
Should a 7 year old be made to feel like a piece of crap though?
no the kid should not be punished

what they should do is find a group of kids who will work the concession stands at say 8 bucks an hour, then parents who are "scheduled to work" can pay the kids salary for a three hour window in advance instead of having to work the stand and making the kid suffer.

I am sure some 13-15 year old kid would enjoy the cash for porn and video games



look at it this way, I know nothing about this story, what the mother does for work, nor do I really care but the econemy is pretty sh!tty around here, could her staying at work be out of fear for her job? or maybe something similar....
 
The mother made her decision. She is responsible for her child, not the state or a ball club.
I understand that, just saying a kid shouldn't be punished because his parents are irresponsible. Doesn't seem fair. There's plenty of sweet, good kids in spite of their parents.
 
no the kid should not be punished

what they should do is find a group of kids who will work the concession stands at say 8 bucks an hour, then parents who are "scheduled to work" can pay the kids salary for a three hour window in advance instead of having to work the stand and making the kid suffer.

I am sure some 13-15 year old kid would enjoy the cash for porn and video games



look at it this way, I know nothing about this story, what the mother does for work, nor do I really care but the econemy is pretty sh!tty around here, could her staying at work be out of fear for her job? or maybe something similar....

:shake: Momma in the house



Good ideas though....
 
no the kid should not be punished

what they should do is find a group of kids who will work the concession stands at say 8 bucks an hour, then parents who are "scheduled to work" can pay the kids salary for a three hour window in advance instead of having to work the stand and making the kid suffer.

I am sure some 13-15 year old kid would enjoy the cash for porn and video games

That's a good idea! :thumb:

Seriously, you should call those people and suggest that. That way the concession stand is covered and if the parent can't make it the worst that happens is they don't see their kid play.
 
Well, if she were on welfare as opposed to supporting her family maybe she would have been selling the lemonade?

MEH, I doubt it............. who sucking of the teets of society would ever volunteer for anything other than a hand-out?

Unfortunate circumstances but rules have to be adhered to otherwise most of the "soccer moms" would be in a tizzy about it.
The silver lining is the kid may learn that you have to hold up your end of the bargain if you make a commitment.

Maybe a fine or doing a double at the lemonade stand would have avoided this issue.
 
Fairness has nothing to do with life. Only in fairy tales.:thumb:
True, trust me, my kids don't live in a bubble. I hate the pampering that goes on in schools and other places now. Please don't give my kids gold stars for sneezing correctly and all that. Just a bit heartbreaking to picture a little sweetie stuck on the bench because of this.
 
what they should do is find a group of kids who will work the concession stands at say 8 bucks an hour, then parents who are "scheduled to work" can pay the kids salary for a three hour window in advance instead of having to work the stand and making the kid suffer.

I am sure some 13-15 year old kid would enjoy the cash for porn and video games....

Now show me some 13-15 year olds that are willing to work :poke:

Actually, if more were maybe there wouldnt be so many illegals mowing lawns?
 
You'd think that the parents could swap out days if they have to work or have conflicting schedules.

They have to work together as a team.

I do like the Concession for Pron idea too.

:thumb:
 
True, trust me, my kids don't live in a bubble. I hate the pampering that goes on in schools and other places now. Please don't give my kids gold stars for sneezing correctly and all that. Just a bit heartbreaking to picture a little sweetie stuck on the bench because of this.

I understand your viewpoint but once you begin making exceptions, where will it end?
 
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