Jaric
Vae victis
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I remember watching an episode of Americas game on the NFL network on the colts who won super bowl 5. Most of the episode centered around super bowl 3 which the colts had lost to the jets. I was absolutely stunned at how much the players they interviewed had allowed that disappointment to eat at them. To the point where even 30+ years later they still could not let it go.
I could not watch that and not pity those men. Not for losing, that happens to all of us at one time or another, but because they allowed that disappointment to consume them. It was hands down the most depressing of any of those episodes. It served for me a very grim reminder of whathappens to you if you are unable to let go of past disappointments
that and humor is my coping/defense mechanism. Laughter is a far more therapudic expression of emotion than sadness is.
I could not watch that and not pity those men. Not for losing, that happens to all of us at one time or another, but because they allowed that disappointment to consume them. It was hands down the most depressing of any of those episodes. It served for me a very grim reminder of whathappens to you if you are unable to let go of past disappointments
that and humor is my coping/defense mechanism. Laughter is a far more therapudic expression of emotion than sadness is.