We have Turkey on Thanksgiving and a ham on Christmas traditionally. I remember having big family gatherings (the part I like the most) on both sides of my family up until about five or six years ago (or so). On my moms side, everything basically stopped when my grandma on her side passed away. On my dads side, we still get together, but it is only about ten people (we are actually doing this on Sunday) as many of my Grandma's siblings have passed away. A few years ago, the year before I got married, I went to my wife's dads side of family Christmas. Big house, around 20-30 people. I loved it. I hardly knew anyone, still don't. My favorite part was watching all the kids open up presents, especially the real little ones. Makes me excited for Christmas' to come. I already decided that I am going to try to get my moms side of the family back together for a dinner next year (hey, I can exploit my daughter to get them to come for a babys first Christmas). My father in laws side Christmas is the 30th and hopefully just as many of more will show up. I hope we can make it, one way or another, it will be a family gathering (with big family or at the hospital with a new family member). On my wife's mothers side, there isn't many left and it is Next Sunday at the assisted living facility her grandma lives at. I personally don't care about gifts anymore but I expect my daughter will be getting some and Sarah's grandma (dads side) always makes noodles for everyone (you have to cook them).