A quick short back story on what I am writing here. Every year back home in Northern Maine we have an Acadian festival celebrating a French last name. My father's was in the 90ties and my mother's was in 2012 which i went up for. They always have a geneology book and I did get one. On the very first page of this large book it plainly stated in the 1700's( when we came over from France) that there was a village afflicted with a disease that no one had come across before. Research had pinpoint this to being Alzheimer's.
So basically it is with my family. My mom is coming down to visit with me for a nice visit. She is in VA now with my oldeer sister doing that there. We brought her down in January, my sister drove up in the storm to get her, so we can visit. My sister back home is trying to put her in a home and we both feel she is not there yet.
But she does have Alzheimer's and it is getting worse.
The point of this thread is simply. I have been with my mom for two weeks at a time a few times each year but this time it will be more extensive. She has already been up with my sister for five weeks when we go get her on Saturday. I need tips, suggestions, ideas and things that can help me help her.
I know to be patient with her for she is not doing this on purpose and doesn't mean to do the things she does. My sister in Maine has little patience to be blunt among other things. I have done what I know I can do as far as prepping the house and the family.
But any suggestions I would truly appreciate. My mom is the best. She grew up during the Depression along with her 14 siblings on a rural farm. She survived that, she has a 8th grade education but still managed to take care of us three girls when my dad died when I was five. She paided off the house, the car and took care of us with what little we had. There were days she wouldn't eat so we had food. I could go on but you get the point. In 2012 she lost her second husband and actually was the one who found him.
It was after this that we started noticing more how she was, not realizing what a great buffer our stepdad was to her.
I want to do the best I can while she is with me.
Thank you for reading and any help you can mention.
So basically it is with my family. My mom is coming down to visit with me for a nice visit. She is in VA now with my oldeer sister doing that there. We brought her down in January, my sister drove up in the storm to get her, so we can visit. My sister back home is trying to put her in a home and we both feel she is not there yet.
But she does have Alzheimer's and it is getting worse.
The point of this thread is simply. I have been with my mom for two weeks at a time a few times each year but this time it will be more extensive. She has already been up with my sister for five weeks when we go get her on Saturday. I need tips, suggestions, ideas and things that can help me help her.
I know to be patient with her for she is not doing this on purpose and doesn't mean to do the things she does. My sister in Maine has little patience to be blunt among other things. I have done what I know I can do as far as prepping the house and the family.
But any suggestions I would truly appreciate. My mom is the best. She grew up during the Depression along with her 14 siblings on a rural farm. She survived that, she has a 8th grade education but still managed to take care of us three girls when my dad died when I was five. She paided off the house, the car and took care of us with what little we had. There were days she wouldn't eat so we had food. I could go on but you get the point. In 2012 she lost her second husband and actually was the one who found him.
It was after this that we started noticing more how she was, not realizing what a great buffer our stepdad was to her.
I want to do the best I can while she is with me.
Thank you for reading and any help you can mention.