Oedipus Tex
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Because hey, where better to turn for advise on important life decisions than anonymous strangers on an internet message board?
Seriously, I'm curious how you would handle this situation:
I'm in a serious relationship right now, to the point where I went to meet her family about 15 months ago, and have been looking at rings. That's great.
Here's the situation - my girlfriend is pretty good looking, an attractive girl, and great to be around. However, my girlfriend's younger sister is gorgeous. I mean, black hair, blue/green eyes, perfectly curved, GORGEOUS. I mean she'd be in the girly pic thread if she dressed like that (she doesn't tend to.) She likes movies, sports, computer games, is ambitious and smart (a nurse), and we get along great. We have similar values and plans about family.
We talk a lot, both with my g/f and sometimes alone. We often watch movies as a threesome, for instance, and sit up and talk about them later on. She suits my personality better than my girlfriend, with the only exception being that she's a slob. I'm no neatnick, but the girl is a serious slob.
But that's the only drawback, and while I love my girlfriend, that is starting to fade into a friendship-type feeling, while I think I'm seriously falling in love with her sister.
They are great friends, only 3 years apart, and talk about pretty much everything together. I have a very strong suspicion that my feelings are reciprocated, judging by the occasional flirting (that is easily chalked up to just teasing the g/f's family, and getting it back) and the fact that I've on more than one occasion caught her looking at me, for instance at cookouts, etc.
This isn't a sudden, quick thing, either. This started probably 9 months ago now, and it's just getting worse.
Thoughts?
My thought is that I'm screwed. I can't even bear the thought of losing either one of them from my life, but I don't want to go through life lusting after my wife's sister, either. I think if I were to broach the topic, they'd have a huge blow up and ruin their relationship, and/or one or both of their relationships with me.
Help? Please?
Seriously, I'm curious how you would handle this situation:
I'm in a serious relationship right now, to the point where I went to meet her family about 15 months ago, and have been looking at rings. That's great.
Here's the situation - my girlfriend is pretty good looking, an attractive girl, and great to be around. However, my girlfriend's younger sister is gorgeous. I mean, black hair, blue/green eyes, perfectly curved, GORGEOUS. I mean she'd be in the girly pic thread if she dressed like that (she doesn't tend to.) She likes movies, sports, computer games, is ambitious and smart (a nurse), and we get along great. We have similar values and plans about family.
We talk a lot, both with my g/f and sometimes alone. We often watch movies as a threesome, for instance, and sit up and talk about them later on. She suits my personality better than my girlfriend, with the only exception being that she's a slob. I'm no neatnick, but the girl is a serious slob.
But that's the only drawback, and while I love my girlfriend, that is starting to fade into a friendship-type feeling, while I think I'm seriously falling in love with her sister.
They are great friends, only 3 years apart, and talk about pretty much everything together. I have a very strong suspicion that my feelings are reciprocated, judging by the occasional flirting (that is easily chalked up to just teasing the g/f's family, and getting it back) and the fact that I've on more than one occasion caught her looking at me, for instance at cookouts, etc.
This isn't a sudden, quick thing, either. This started probably 9 months ago now, and it's just getting worse.
Thoughts?
My thought is that I'm screwed. I can't even bear the thought of losing either one of them from my life, but I don't want to go through life lusting after my wife's sister, either. I think if I were to broach the topic, they'd have a huge blow up and ruin their relationship, and/or one or both of their relationships with me.
Help? Please?