TrueBeliever
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easier said than done, how do you do this?Someone needs to put a stop to this wedding! That would be the best situation. There will be physical abuse with much violence in this marriage. Another tragedy in the making......
Yeah, short of an abduction or sudden affliction by one of the parties marrying.....:shrug:easier said than done, how do you do this?
as an outsider looking in yeah it makes sense but I doubt she is going to listen to reason at this point....the only hope is he gets cold feet and fails to show
Years ago, my cousin dated someone who sounds eerily similar to this guy. When she broke it off, he stalked her,calling her 50 times a day at work, at home, called her parents. She ended up getting back together. They ended up married. After a year of literally not being able to leave the house because the arguments at the end of the day weren't worth it, she decided to leave him. Only family knew where she was living. One day she was going into work at the nursing home she worked at in Quincy, and he came at her, stabbing her 25 times, and she died.
Moral of the story, the warning signs are there. You and your family should sit this girl down before the wedding and tell her just what her life is going to look like a few months after she's married. People that are jealous, insecure, controlling, and manipulative to the degree that they stalk will abuse or kill. They don't change; they only get worse. Once they're married, he will consider her his "property."
I just thought he had two cousinsStop confusing me!! I replied in the other thread!
wow that stinks, my question is how do you do that without being alienated? the woman just lost her mom and I assume is feeling a little alone to begin with because of the relationship. She may be looking for something to occupy the void, someone to love her and take care of her and blindly believes this nut is the person.Years ago, my cousin dated someone who sounds eerily similar to this guy. When she broke it off, he stalked her,calling her 50 times a day at work, at home, called her parents. She ended up getting back together. They ended up married. After a year of literally not being able to leave the house because the arguments at the end of the day weren't worth it, she decided to leave him. Only family knew where she was living. One day she was going into work at the nursing home she worked at in Quincy, and he came at her, stabbing her 25 times, and she died.
Moral of the story, the warning signs are there. You and your family should sit this girl down before the wedding and tell her just what her life is going to look like a few months after she's married. People that are jealous, insecure, controlling, and manipulative to the degree that they stalk will abuse or kill. They don't change; they only get worse. Once they're married, he will consider her his "property."
I just thought he had two cousins
wow that stinks, my question is how do you do that without being alienated? the woman just lost her mom and I assume is feeling a little alone to begin with because of the relationship. She may be looking for something to occupy the void, someone to love her and take care of her and blindly believes this nut is the person.
TB did they get back together around the time your aunt got sick?
TB did they get back together around the time your aunt got sick?